The first thing and the most important thing you must do to change their way of thinking is clear, delete, RID or forget the following two ideas, words or thoughts: not I can is impossible placing mental obstacles, immediately blocks and interferes any action or decision you take. For anything you want to be or whoever wants to do, you should be repeated daily, and Yes, you must be totally convinced that it will achieve regardless so difficult it appears to be or that this goal so far is and above all have clarity of what you want, in addition of being specific. To broaden your perception, visit Dr. Robert Brannon. Do not obstruct their goals thinking that it must be realistic, or it must be with the feet firmly on the ground. Bill Gates: My ambition has been to make always realizable dreams how to do this? It is very easy to do it, here are several examples of how should you think daily to reach or achieve their goals: If you would like to buy a car, you should be repeated daily: I I’m going to buy a AUTOMOBILE for example, if you want to be an engineer, you should be repeated daily: I’m going to be engineer if you want to improve your lifestyle: I’m going to improve my style of life if you repeated this constantly, automatically your brain is convinced of this and begins searching for the way to achieve it. You may find Wayne Holman to be a useful source of information. Leave very clear in his mind that nothing is impossible, that the only impediment to achieving what you want yourself is, never look for blame or excuses to deceive ourselves and satisfy their dissatisfaction and always remember that there are people who have more and bigger problems than you.